Turn Down the Alarm Parenting: Seeing Your Kids Through a New Lens

Palmer here!! My neighbors are all much older than I am, and when we moved in they added us to their group chat where they plan all kinds of get-togethers. Most of their kids are older than my wife and me, but many of these neighbors have become our friends. This past Wednesday, I was out in […]
Don’t Miss Out on Living Your Best Life

Palmer shares a heartfelt reflection on fatherhood and the importance of staying intentional in life’s everyday moments, even when comfort and convenience tempt us away.
What rhythms are shaping your family?

Palmer here! 👋 Family routines shape more than just our schedules. They quietly define our connection, communication, and calm. As we all know, the school year is here, and summer is coming to an end. I don’t know about you, but summer feels like the wild west for kids. One week they’re at a sports camp, up at […]
Sorry Mom – It Was Messy, But We Made It

Palmer opens up about his high school struggles, ADHD, and how resilience—not perfection—led him to success. A hopeful reminder for parents that growth often comes from the hardest seasons.
The Blind Spot You Can’t Afford to Ignore

This week’s email applies to every single person, and you can take that to the bank. I have compiled a list of around 150 of my favorite takeaways while completing my master’s degree at Northwestern for Marriage and Family Therapy – This is one of my favorites! It is simple yet ESSENTIAL to incorporate into our lives […]
Your Kid Is Doomed If They Do This

You are doomed if your kid does this… You got Palmer today! First off, happy Easter if you celebrate! Whether you enjoy an Easter egg hunt or deeply reflect on its meaning, I hope it’s a lovely day for you 😊. I’m just kidding about them being doomed, but I have had something on my mind […]
I Lost My Mind – Here’s How I Got It Back

I almost lost my f****ng mind. Hi sorry, excuse me – it’s Palmer! I sometimes lose my mind a bit, especially if I’m tired or frustrated. No, this isn’t about sleep habits (maybe another time), but rather the not-so-secret secret of staying committed to living our most intentional, vibrant lives. There I was at 11:30 pm […]
The Success Trap Every Parent Should Avoid

As a parent having pride for your kids can be a mixed bad. It’s good to be proud of your kids; it can help them feel encouraged, but it can also be overdone if we start to let their lives dictate our own sense of worth. Since 2017 when I first worked door-to-door sales selling educational resources to […]
What If Change Isn’t Something to Fear?

View in browser Dear Friend,I make myself laugh. Two weeks ago, for my Sunday email, I told myself, “In two weeks, you can really sit down and give a lot of thought to your email because by then, life will be mostly back to normal.” Ha Ha Ha. What a joke. Here we are, two weeks later, and I am […]
Have You Told Your Kids This Recently?

It’s Palmer today! The 2-3 hour windows of sleep I’ve been getting the last week or two have been a bit rough, so I’m going to keep this email simple and action-focused. I know it’s only been two weeks since I last wrote to you, but somehow, these last two weeks have felt like two months. I’ve missed thinking about […]