Things I've learned while raising 5 boys
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Things I've learned while raising 5 boys

Kerry

Today is about boys. Living with five of them has taught me to see the world differently than this girlie-girl of a boy mom would have seen the world before living in boy-land.

For fun, I'm sharing some random things I've learned from raising boys — my particular five of them. Sometimes it has felt like raising wolves. Sometimes it has been sweet, tender, and loving.

Today, Superbowl Sunday, is a day about throwing, running, tackling, competition, and teamwork. I can't imagine why that makes me think of my boys. :-)

What I've learned from living with boys:
raising 5 boys - family portrait chaos
With five sons, someone is ALWAYS horsing around, even during family portraits
boy catching frogs
Frogs are for catching and wearing



boy sitting in drawer
Drawers are for sitting


boys wrestling
Any time is a good time for wrestling



boys stacking on each other
Bodies are for stacking



boys jumping gaps
Gaps are for jumping




boy playing with pool noodles
Noodles are for entertaining
brothers as best friends
Siblings who torment each other can grow up to be best friends


brothers fishing
Even when you're miles from water, it's worth carrying your fishing rod just to create this picture with your brother (no edits)



boy mom canoeing with Boy Scouts
Even the girliest of girls can turn into a boy mom who canoes and backpacks with Boy Scouts



five brothers together
Love is not zero-sum: the heart expands as each new child enters the family



Whatever sort of child you are raising, I wish you the gift of seeing the world differently than before they joined your family.

And if you're wondering whether all that torment between siblings actually leads somewhere good — I have some thoughts on whether kids will be friends as adults. 🙂